Monday 12 November 2012

Expert Wedding Advice - Part One : The Bride

In this new series of blog posts, I will be sourcing the most sought after information regarding wedding planning, to provide you with a foolproof how-to guide. Harri Moran, who tied the knot just a few weeks ago, was kind enough to share her words of wisdom with us for our first post in this series.

Weddings are extremely expensive!  Were there any traditions that you were happy to change or overlook in order to keep to a budget, or did you feel that it was important to take a classic approach, whatever the cost?

"We decided not to have a wedding breakfast. It cut hundreds off our bill and the day had much more of a fun feeling because everybody knew
the party was coming next! it also meant there was lots less waiting around and that kept the guests happy as its easy to get bored"

How did you decide on your initial wedding budget, and did you have any problems sticking to it?


"We looked at what would be reasonable for us to put away each month and then looked at what was most important to us for the day we decided we wanted a posh wedding and a fun party where everyone felt at ease!we then worked the budget to suit these wants.we went over budget by about £200 which was nothing in the grand scheme of things"

Would you recommend any websites in particular which helped you to plan or save money on your wedding?

"We bought almost everything from eBay for the party - all of the decorations,napkins and cutlery etc. We also went round lots of pound shops for plates and other bits. EBay was a life saver for us we got lots of quirky bits that made the day really unique to us.  It was important to us that we had things people hadn't seen, or that put smiles on their faces.  We could get things like napkins personalised as keepsakes."

Did you feel that you could add  DIY aspects to any parts of your wedding to save money? Or is it safer to trust the experts?


"We did lots of the wedding ourselves we bought the decorations for the reception and decorated it ourselves. This was nice as we could make it look exactly how we wanted it to. We also bought the suits,shirts,waistcoats and cravats separately from different places, and this gave the boys the look we wanted.  We were able to pay for the suits as, and include them as groomsman's gifts, for the same price as hiring them would have cost.  I did do most of the wedding DIY as that suited me, but people shouldn't feel they have to do everything themselves. Sometimes spending a little more to get someone else to help out with things for you saves headaches - and looking back i should have used the wedding coordinator at the venue more!!"

Which services are best left to experts-what would you recommend paying out for?


"We catered the wedding ourselves and it saved lots of money but on the day it was very stressful getting everything sorted logistics wise.  Other than that we enjoyed being super involved in the process it was stressful before but the day was amazing and totally worth it!!"

Saturday 10 November 2012

Camp and Furnace Wedding Festival

Sorry this is a bit late, but a second wedding festival is in the pipeline for this venue, so this post should still serve a purpose.

I had been eagerly awaiting this event. My maid of honour was unable to join me, but after listening to me gushing about how cool the venue was, i successfully enlisted a very helpful friend to come along with me. The entry fee of five pounds had put me off a little, as the other wedding fairs I have previously attended were always free, but I was so excited that parting with some hard earned cash was something that I hardly even considered.

The initial scene seemed promising, classic camper vans and cool vintage cars provided by 'VW Vintage Wedding Vehicle Hire.' (www.vwvintagewedding.com)

Upon entering the venue, I was struck by how amazing the space was - perfect for any cool party or celebration, but definitely the right place to hold a barn style or festival inspired wedding.

While we wandered around the various stalls, most stall holders were keen to chat about my upcoming nuptials and to discuss their services on offer. Some excellent ideas for hen parties were offered by 'Hen Craft'. (www.thecraftcreative.com) A perfect idea if you don't fancy getting overly tipsy on your hen do, workshops include 'make your own fascinator' and 'pimp your pants' (a chance to design and make some frilly knickers!) These fun classes would not only provide entertainment, and perhaps help you find a new hobby, but you could also use your creations on your big day. I really like this idea!

Beautifully intricate cake creations were on display, crafted by 'The Chocolate Cellar' (at The Wedding House). With awe-inspiring designs, delicious cakes and chocolate favours, The Chocolate Cellar seems like an excellent choice for your dessert course.

Many of the stall holders were really friendly, which added to the happy and relaxed atmosphere. Others were extremely stand-offish, if not downright rude! (There's always one!) At one point, my friend excitedly complimented some beautiful stationary, and the lady manning the stall simply raised her eyebrows and continued to slurp her tea - no stationary is pretty enough to be snooty about!

While I enjoyed searching through the racks of vintage wedding dresses, it was hard to imagine anybody actually wearing one on their wedding day. I think a 'vintage inspired' dress would be more appropriate than genuine vintage, but each to their own I suppose.

When we had finished browsing, we took a seat in the cool 'picnic style' seating area, and I treated my companion and I to a half of pilsner each while we discussed the experience as a whole. We concluded that the stalls offered an eclectic variety of products and services, but felt that we hadn't really seen anything exciting or different (aside from the crafting hen parties!). Some stalls are regulars at vintage fairs, which do not have an entry fee, which was a little disappointing. We felt that on the whole, we couldn't justify paying an entrance fee for this event. I have been to similar events which cost nothing, and I received more goodies! (See my previous post on Memory Lane Wedding Fairs for details.)

The Camp and Furnace venue is undeniably excellent, with a cool, laid back vibe. Even if you are not planning a wedding, I would recommend a visit. The bar is relaxed and comforting, with a roaring fire to keep warm by. The menu looks very exciting, and there is also an art gallery space, as the venue actively encourages and promotes the arts. I feel that it would be an excellent venue in which to hold a modern or vintage inspired wedding...and the kitsch caravan accommodation is an amazing gimmick, meaning that family and friends don't have to worry about finding their way home after the event. I just felt that we didn't get much for our money, and hope that if we were to return next time, that this would possibly be rectified.